The first and main rule is not to make the sign of the cross following the one gone to war and, of course, not to wash him with so-called “holy” water, because this is a binding to suffering. The cross is an instrument of suffering, and holy is the water that is illuminated with the Sunshine (filled with light), and not the one got from splashing the relics. The water from the church establish a link to the dead ones.
Kissing the photo, read these words:
«I pray for you (name) Heaven and Earth. May Heaven light your way. May the Earth bless your roads. May Earth and Heaven protect you from the evil of the enemy. Truly!»
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